A method, system, and computer program product that provides the capability to manage, control, and reconfigure wireless devices remotely over a wireless network with acceptable reliability and security. In one embodiment, the method for remotely managing a wireless device over a wireless network comprising a server and the wireless device, the wireless network operable to communicatively connect the server and the wireless device, comprises the steps of: transmitting registration information relating to the wireless device from the wireless device to the server, verifying the registration information at the server, establishing a mailbox for the wireless device at the server, placing a command for the wireless device in the mailbox, delivering the command from the mailbox to the wireless device, and executing the command at the wireless device.