A communication analyzing system for effectively determining a first communication style, emotion and personality of a first communication and an appropriate reply communication style for a reply communication. The communication analyzing system includes entering a communication into an input section, analyzing the text within the communication, determining a communication style of the communication, and displaying the communication style of the communication. The communication style is determined by comparing the words and phrases contained within the communication with conventional neuro-linguistic and brain dominance models and theories. The user may utilize the interface to enter various proposed communications until a desired communication style is achieved that will appeal to the audience.