A personal information manager (PIM) has been provided for use in controlling telephone call message responses for a wireless communications network mobile station telephone. The PIM permits a telephone user to program a unique response for each calling party. Typical responses including the normal audible alert, automatically transferring the call to voice mail, and silent ringing with no voice mail, to name but a few options. In addition, the matrix of calling parties and corresponding message responses can be modified for different times of the day or circumstances. For example, the PIM can be programmed to deliver a different set of responses during normal work hours than the responses provided at night, or during a business meeting.