A flexible bag wrap is adapted for use in an incontinence management system. The bag wrap includes a flexible base adapted for wrapping around a body part of a user. The base includes a three-dimensional fabric spacer. The fabric spacer has an inside facing for residing nearest the skin of the user, an outside facing opposite the inside facing, and an intermediate spacer yarn interconnecting the inside and outside facings. A collection bag is carried by the base adjacent the outside facing of the fabric spacer, and is adapted for collecting urine excreted by the user.