A personalized psychological transition guidance system to assist a child through the difficulties of divorce or separation comprising a combination of a transitional journal and a transition bag for photos and memorabilia. The carrying bag has removable picture frames on both sides of the bag for pictures representing each side of the broken family. The bag is washable with the photo frames removed. The transitional journal has frames on both covers for pictures, one on each side. The journal has a front and a rear section of pages, one section for each side of the broken family. Each of the sections of pages includes a contact page, calendar, holiday schedule, journal pages for the parents to write on, psychologically instructive information on what needs to be communicated, and parenting ground rules.