A system and method for providing implementing proxy handling of instant
messages and the like, wherein proxy recipients are designated by an
original recipient, and one or more redirection rules are established
indicating conditions under which said designated proxy recipients are to
be sent redirected messages. When an instant message is received directed
towards the original recipient, the redirection rules are evaluated and
the message is redirect to a designated proxy recipient according to the
redirection rules, with the display of the received message being
suppressed or blocked on the intended original recipient's user
interface.