A radio television and frequency modulation monitor transmitting receiving control apparatus is constructed to include at least one receiving module respectively installed in a respective monitor controlled by a remote controller, and a radio television and frequency modulation transmitting control module connected to an audio video signal source, which can be a digital video disk player, cathode ray tube television, digital video disk game machine, digital video disk internet game machine, organic light emitting diode display, or notebook computer, and adapted for transmitting signal data from the remote controller through an infrared transceiver of each receiving module to the audio video signal source and transmitting audio video output signal from the audio video signal source to each receiving module for output through each monitor in which one of the at least one receiving module is installed.